Archive for October, 2009

2009 THA Halloween Carnival

I decided to snap a couple of photos of my Pink and Precious Halloween baby girls before we left for the carnival.  I’m so glad I did!  The carnival is always so much fun and so busy with food, games, huge bouncy castles, pony rides and music!  We barely had time to do everything, much less stop to pose for photos!  What a fun night!

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Pinkalicious

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She even had pinkalicious hair!

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Princess McCanless

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As soon as we hit the doors of the THA Gymnasium, McCanless took off and remained with her friends for the entire carnival.  She stayed in the library most of the evening, where the 7th grade hosted a Monster Mash Dance Party.

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Meanwhile, Mary Clare found a group of toddlers and her favorite cousin in front of the Emcee and danced her little heart out all night!

THA Carnival Fun 2

She also found many of my former students to “play” with.  She loves my students, and she loves the attention!

THA carnival Fun 3

Just before the end of the carnival, McCanless found her way back to the gym and she and Mary Clare played a few games.  We had so much fun!  The carnival is always one of my favorite Halloween festivities!


Mary Clare’s 2K Class Halloween Party

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Mary Clare attends a 2K class five mornings a week,  so her teacher had a party on Thursday and Friday so everyone could participate.  (Not all of the children attend all 5 mornings.)   Mary Clare was a beautiful princess on Thursday and a USC cheerleader on Friday!  (Mommy came straight from school and it just so happened to be Tacky Day. It also just so happened to be the first day I have been able to meet other 2K parents. I’m hoping they assumed I was dressed up for Halloween!)

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Mary Clare and Reese

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She thought it was funny to pull his tail!

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While Ms. Jordan led the children in  songs and practiced Halloween sign language, Mary Clare dug in her candy bags.  She still has a huge sweet tooth!  …Looks like Halloween will be her favorite holiday!

I don’t remember there ever being 12 days of Halloween when I was a child!

I’m worn out and we still have Trick-or-Treating to go!  This week we’ve had Red Ribbon Anti Drug week with a different dress-up themed day, three Halloween class parties, one carnival, one Halloween party and two more parties plus Trick-or-Treating to do!!  What a crazy and fun week of dressing up!  My girls have been in heaven!

Tacky Day 2009

Tacky Day at THA


Mr. Jack O. Lantern

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McCanless asked me what Jack’s middle name was.  When I asked, “Jack Who?”  She replied, “You know!  Jack O.  What does the O. stand for?”

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Pouting because she “wanted a turn!”

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…then she certainly wasn’t a fan of the squishy insides of Mr. Jack.

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Later that night, Mary Clare was amazed at the candle inside of our Jack-O-Lantern!

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My beautiful princesses.

…and speaking of, this is not Mary Clare’s Halloween costume.  She wore this dress to school today.  For a couple of months now, she has only wanted to be “pink” for Halloween, so we decided on Pinkalicious, a character from her favorite book.  Gone are the days of my grand plans of coordinated baby girls.  They are way too strong willed for that.  This year, I tried desperately to get them to be a pirate and mermaid, and for a few weeks when McCanless insisted on being Miley Cyrus, I even thought about dressing Mary Clare as Hannah Montanna!  Finally, McCanless suggested a princess.  At first, I thought it wasn’t extrememly creative or exciting.   They wear their dress-up Princess clothes on a daily basis. But you know what?  How much longer are my baby girls going to want to twirl in pouffy dresses and wear crowns for Halloween?  I knew Mary Clare would probably not appreciate a coordinating frog costume when big sister got to twirl in her pink dress anyway, so Princess and Pinkalicious it is!  McCanless and I found a gorgeous pink sequin dress, fancy shoes , a real crown and jewels for her costume, and I have yet to show Miss Pinkalicious her equally as twirly and new pinkalicious attire!  I knew she would wear it out before Halloween! Two twirly, whirly, pinkalicious dresses for my two pinkalicious princesses!

On a different subject, after calling week after week every doctor’s office in SC including MUSC, I was finally able to make appointments for their H1N1 Vaccinations at our local Health Department!!  No lines!  Hooray!! I am thrilled! We are all now protected against regular seasonal flu and H1N1 Flu!!  (Well, Mel and I have to wait for the H1N1 Vaccination, but at least the girls have it!)  Mel was busy, as usual, so I took the girls myself.  Mary Clare took her stick like a champ, only cried for a second, grabbed her Dora sticker and jumped out of my lap.  McCanless immediately stopped smiling when the nurse said, “You’re next.”  She had no clue.  Mary Clare began repeating exactly what McCanless had been preaching to her.  “It won’t hurt.  It will only be a minute.  Don’t cry.”

McCanless screamed, begged, pleaded and screamed more.  She begged me, the nurse, and Mary Clare to take her home.  “I saw the needle!  You can’t do this!”   The nurse asked me if I had a drama queen on my hands.   I had to pull her pants down, which was horrific to McCanless, and hold her wrists tight while she screamed bloody murder.  When I called Mel about an hour and a half later after dinner, after baths, she was still screaming.  She is furious with me, but she is protected!

Hartsville Messenger Endorsement

I usually only post events about the girls and leave grown up/adult “stuff” out of this blog, unless, of course, the girls are involved!  This post, however, requires an exemption and a special posting!  Read on!

EDITORIAL: In choice for mayor, solutions matter most

By Lisa Chalian-Rock The Messenger Editor
Published: October 28, 2009

Innovation and ideas matter most in tough economic times. Without creativity, Hartsville will remain mired in its troubles. Hartsville needs solutions and someone who is willing to take a chance and think outside the box to tackle the city’s problems.

As some 150 residents saw last week at the mayor’s forum at Coker College, residents have two fine candidates for the city’s highest office. Both have business and government experience, have called Hartsville home for many years and have contributed to and love this community.

Pam Sansbury wants to focus on “common sense.” Her solutions for Hartsville’s finances include reducing salaries, cutting positions and trimming spending. She wants an outside firm to evaluate the city’s computer system to make sure payments and bills are posting properly, and she says the revenue loss seems suspicious and is worth investigating.

“It’s just like running a business,” she says.

Mel Pennington wants to “fundamentally change” the way the city makes money by creating a new stream of revenue with the broadband project he has worked on as vice-chairman of the planning commission. He says infrastructure technology needs to be added to the 2020 plan. He also wants to investigate the coming storm water rate increase before it hits in January. He says he looks forward to working with citizens and with state legislators to utilize all the assets (people) Hartsville has.

Sansbury’s main argument for her candidacy is her experience, that “she’s the only qualified candidate;” however, the current problems grew out of the decisions made during the time in which she served as finance director and on city council. She was in government when the utility fund was raided.

On recreation spending, Sansbury says the budget is bloated. Pennington questions the logic of cutting out one of the city’s gems. The department does charge separate rates for in-town and out-of-town residents.

For the controversial water bills, neither candidate sees the rates changing immediately. Pennington has a plan to address the problem in the long run by shifting the way the city raises money to a more market-based approach. Sansbury sees this as a reason to investigate the city’s revenue loss and monthly financial statements.

While Sansbury wants to start her administration off with a budget retreat in January, Pennington says he plans to start on Nov. 4 with a transition team and a “Day One Plan.”

Pennington already started a list of items to put on the agenda the date the new mayor will be sworn in, on Nov. 10. He said he intends to make the meeting a work session as it is intended to be.

While Sansbury says her retired status is an asset, her attitude didn’t reflect what that implies, that she will take on the job fulltime. She mentioned an open door policy at the Oct. 20 forum, but the hours she noted were minimal at best, just 2 to 3 hours per day.

She says she is focused on accountability and having a goal but only describes a corporate mentality of budget cuts and the elimination of positions.

Pennington focuses on the other side of the equation: revenue. Besides the broadband initiative, he wants to propose a tax rebate for agricultural land adjacent to the city. Once the land is developed, the tax rebate goes away and the city gains a commercial or industrial customer. He cites the Lowe’s on Fourth Street as an example of a property that could have been negotiated in this way.

Sansbury has good business sense and knows how the system works now and has worked in the past, but is that enough to drive the city into the quickly changing future?

If the job of a mayor is to lead, Pennington is the choice. He shows leadership and excitement. He energizes people and could use the mayor’s position as the bully pulpit it is to sway city council toward a goal. He comes to the table with new thinking, alternative, out-of-the-box ideas and, more importantly, real solutions.

His approach tackles the city’s problems from a new direction, and that new direction is what Hartsville needs.

The choice for Hartsville is clear. To go forward, voters must choose the candidate of entrepreneurial spirit over the candidate of comfortable experience.

Prestwood Wiener Roast

Saturday night we headed over to Prestwood Country Club for the annual Prestwood Family Wiener Roast!  We had so much fun and stayed way too late!

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McCanless met us there with her friend, Eliza.  The big girls had a great time!

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The “2″ crew!

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I think Daddy and Mary Clare had 6 hot dogs between the two of them!

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Always dancing.  Always cheering.

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One can never have too many hayrides in Fall!

Today, Sunday, Aunt Liz and Uncle Robert took McCanless to the SC State Fair for more fun!  Afterward, McCanless crashed at aunt Liz’s house for a couple of hours, met up with Nonnie, Kacy, Kate and Mary Clare and headed for “Boo at the Zoo” at Riverbanks Zoo.  (I told you we were busy with Fall!)  Mel and I have had a nice relaxing evening without any Fall Festivities or children!  Good thing, I’ll probably need the extra rest to be able to put up with two worn out little monsters tomorrow!

Halloween Bash with BB and PaPa

Saturday afternoon, BB and PaPa took Reese and Mary Clare to a Halloween party! (McCanless was at Eliza’s house.)

More hayrides, pumpkins and fun!  We do love Fall!

Boo

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Morphis Party

Mary Clare with one of her favorite THA big girls, Holly!

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Reese and Mary Clare on the tractor!

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BB and Reese

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PaPa

Coker Farms Fall Festival

A little rain didn’t stop us from having a great time at the Coker Farms Fall Festival on Saturday morning!

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My little sweet heart loving life…

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It’s cotton pickin’ time!

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When asked what she wanted on her face Mary Clare replied, “Pink.”  She is really, really into pink these days.  Only a pink butterfly would do!

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We danced to bluegrass, ate hot dogs, picked cotton and played in the rain.  McCanless went home with Eliza and Mary Clare fell fast asleep in the car on the ride home!  A great way to begin our weekend!

HOORAY!

Mary Clare’s impromptu cardiology visit was a blessing in disguise!   Driving down to Charleston, Mel and I were so nervous about the results of her visit.   We just couldn’t shake that stomach sickening feeling that you get when you know your baby is sick.   Very sick.  Although Mary Clare’s Oxygen saturation levels are dropping and she is turning bluer as the months roll along, her heart function/squeeze is great!  (For a single ventricle heart, that is.)   Her echo looked great and her EKG was perfect!  Her little heart is doing fine and now we know that for sure.  Whew!  In fact, we have been cleared for an “official” clinic visit until Spring 2010!  We will, at that point, schedule a heart catheterization to get detailed and very specific heart pressures.  Dr. Bradley typically operates within a month after a heart catheterization…so we have a tentative plan and until then, my little blueberry will be at home safe and sound!

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Here is Mary Clare getting her echo with Ms. Karen, one of our favorite echo technicians!!

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She is such a big girl during her echos and never fusses.

Her oxygen levels will continue to drop as her Fontan approaches, which is to be expected.  It’s kind-of a “catch 22.”   She needs to be a certain weight for the surgery, but at the same time, as time progresses and she gains weight, it places more stress on her heart and her function may decline.  So, although I want her to gain weight for her Fontan, I also know that it means that her levels will continue to drop with the added weight.

I think there must be  a fine line as to when the Fontan needs to take place, and I’m sure it varies for each child.  Many other hospitals perform the Fontan at much earlier ages, but I have complete confidence in Dr. Bradley and the  cardiology team at MUSC.   We know that because Dr. Bradley will use synthetic (man made) materials in this final surgery,  they will not “grow” with her heart.  They must be with her lifelong.  So, in layman’s terms, her heart cannot be too small because the materials used will be too big-they must be a certain size to last her throughout her life.  Also, we must wait for her to gain weight, but we can’t wait too long because her levels will continue to drop as she gets bigger.  (I know, very oxymoronish.)

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After our 2 hour long visit at MUSC, we headed to our favorite lunch destination in Charleston, Fleet Landing!  It couldn’t have been a more beautiful day!

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I didn’t notice this at all today during lunch, but as I was deleting photos, I stopped to wonder what in the world my lens focused on in this particular photo above.

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After zooming in I saw the cross on the beach behind Mary Clare, which is exactly what I tried to focus on all day.

Refresher course on the Total Fontan procedure:  In a normal heart each ventricle does a separate job. The right ventricle pumps blood to the lungs, the left ventricle pumps blood to the body. In a single ventricle heart, like Mary Clare’s, there is only one ventricle large enough to do the normal job of pumping blood.  Cardiothoracic surgeons configure the circulation to maximize the efficiency of this single ventricle. This ultimately requires committing the single ventricle to doing the harder work of the heart, pumping blood to the body. The job of getting blood to the lungs must be done without a pump.  Whenever there is only one ventricle large enough to do a normal job of pumping blood, we need to configure the circulation to maximize the efficiency of this single ventricle without overworking it.  The “Fontan circulation” refers to this configuration where the single ventricle pumps blood returning from the lungs to the body, and the blood returning from the body travels to the lungs via direct blood vessel connections without a pumping chamber. In any individual child there may be different procedures needed to achieve this goal. – MUSC Children’s Hospital/Cardiology

Funny how plans can change in the blink of an eye…

Yesterday, I called Central Scheduling at MUSC to bump up Mary Clare’s cardiology appointment.  Really, it was for my own peace of mind.  Her O2 stats have been running in the low 80′s lately, and a few others have noticed her heavy breathing, so I thought it may be time just to have a check up.  To my surprise, the nurse with whom I was speaking,  placed me on hold to discuss this with her cardiologist.  I thought, “Well she must not have much experience with HLHS babies, because this is somewhat normal as we approach her Fontan.  If I was that concerned I certainly would have called him myself.  He will explain that HLHS babies do this and a November appointment will be fine.”

Besides, her Fontan will be in 2010.  Such a very long time away.

What a slap in my face and a huge reality check when the nurse told me that he wanted to see her “tomorrow.”  So today, October 22, we’ll pack up and head to Charleston.  I’m not exactly sure what will happen, but my mommy instinct tells me that we will have a time frame for her third surgery.  Today, I feel ready to tackle this.  Yesterday, I kept thinking how awful it was that I haven’t allowed myself to see the signs sooner.   That I haven’t wanted to “go there.”  Her breathing has become very labored at times.  Her little blueberry hands and feet are always cold.  Last week on her nature walk in pre-school, she couldn’t go 100 yards before she stopped to rest.  Her teachers had to carry her the rest of the way.  She naps.  She sleeps longer.

When she was born and we knew she faced the three surgeries, the Fontan was the least of our worries.  It was the surgery she would have “when she was older” and it seemed so far away.  Time slips away  quickly and , in a way , I’m glad that I often “forget” that she is a heart baby.  I thank God everyday for my little blueberry and all of the happiness she brings to our family.