Happy 1 week Fonanniversary, MC!

6:00 AM One week ago today at this moment, I was handing over MC to her team of docs.  It’s amazing how far she has come and what she can do one week post op.  We had a fun afternoon yesterday with a visits from Aunt Kacy and a few friends.  Yesterday was the first day MC has been around another child and I think it was great for her.   I’m anxious to get McCanless here to visit her baby sister.  I know they will both love to see each other.

MC started off her day pretty slowly.  She was in no mood to talk to her cardiology team or Dr. Bradley, her surgeon.  She slept in and lounged around most of the morning and didn’t even want to head to the Atrium for a morning visit like we usually do.  We took a walk around the hospital and watched Nemo for a bit.  After lunch, I made her get up and we went to the Atrium.  She painted and played for a while once we were there.  Later on, her nurse changed the bandages on her chest, which was not fun, but she had a  great afternoon playing with Parker, my friend, Lee’s 7-year-0ld.  They laughed and giggled and he even painted her toenails.  It was amazing to see how happy she was just being around another child.

Her nurse came in this morning and checked her 24 hour fluid output from her chest tubes.  Her output is still somewhat high.  Her left tube output was 115 mls and her right tube output was 150 mls.  We’ll get there.

She continues to be a bear with taking her oral meds.  She’s just sick of them.  I can’t blame her, though.  She still doesn’t have much of an appetite, although she did chow down on a handful of Coco Puffs yesterday.  I’m hoping today she will want to eat more, get her meds down (and keep them down) and have enough energy to make it to the playroom.  Yesterday, a new neighbor arrived, a HLHS baby girl.  It was great talking to her family and being able to show them how great MC is doing.  As I talked to her mom about feeds, tummy issues and sleeping habits, the memories of her very first surgery came flooding back.  It seemed like an eternity away until I really started talking about it.  It still amazes me how much my baby girl has been through.  No wonder she’s so sassy!

Parker painting MC’s toenails yesterday!

7:33 AM The Princess is still sleeping soundly and I’ve enjoyed watching the sun rise on the Atrium.  It’s truly a lovely view, especially for my sweet girl who lives to visit the magical playroom everyday.  I snapped a few photos and thought I’d share.  On 8D, parents are required to stay with the children as primary care givers.  (Not that I would be anywhere else anyway.)  We do have a fold out chair that acts as a twin bed at night; however, I opt to sleep right in the bed with Mary Clare.  She loves to “get in her spot” smushed right beside me.

Do you see sleeping beauty all bundled up?

10:30 AM Mary Clare just downed 5 meds so I’m letting her take a break with a bit of “Max and Ruby” on Nick.  (I’m also giving myself a mental break after that ordeal.) Otherwise, she’s had a slow start today.  Our plan was to hit the Atrium at 10, when it first opens, but the docs have not rounded yet, so we’re waiting on them.  It’s amazing how full our days actually are.  We are never just sitting around.  We have appointments, and meetings with various docs, nurses schedule various events (dressing changes/IV meds/ check-ins) and we always have Mary Clare “events.”  I should have known that Mary Clare would wait to be plugged into an IV pole, with two chest tubes and collection chambers, and wireless telemetry leads to refuse to go potty in a pull up.  I’ve waited two years to really try to potty train her because I just knew it would be an ordeal to be in panties while in the hospital. Or in the least, I thought she would revert BACK to pull-ups-so I waited.  This week, though she is as potty trained as it gets, even through the night.  Dry as a bone.  My children are as hard headed and head strong as they come.  Shall we take a moment to pray for my patience?

Have I mentioned how blown away by all of the love and support we have received?  I have been amazed at the number of people who love our baby girl and pray for her everyday. I just read an eNewsletter from Thomas Hart and saw that the student body has raised $1,351.00 so far for the American Heart Association in honor of MC.  They have been selling buttons with her photo and “Pinkalicious” on them, of course!  So amazing.  I also have hundreds of photos of MC fans wearing pink overfilling my inbox.  We have seen photos of friends, students, co-workers, strangers, store owners, pets, people from the East coast to the West coast all donning their pink for MC.  We have photos of pink balloons, pink ribbons and pink decorations from everywhere on store fronts and houses!  My heart also overfills with happiness and gratitude. I can’t wait to show her the photos  one day and  tell her of the Day of Pink that was just for her!   Pinkalicious author, Victoria Kann, also contacted us and sent Mary Clare a Pinkalicious care package with Pinkalicious dolls and signed books.  How amazing is that?  We are blessed beyond measure.  Thanks be to God!

10 Comments

Judy Brown  on April 6th, 2011

I so look forward to your posts each day. Your posts are so wonderfully descriptive that I almost feel as if I were there. Mary Clare is certainly a little trooper. This comes from her wonderful parents. Thank God for such a wonderful place like MUSC. It almost looks like it would be fun to be there. So nice that they go to such lengths to make the patients and their families are as comfortable as possible. We will keep praying for all of you, and you keep the posts coming. You are lifted up in prayer by all of Hartsville and beyond. I am blessed to know you.

Judy

Katie McKorell Liddle  on April 6th, 2011

Wow, a week already??? I too look forward to your posts and pictures, Kerri. I especially am looking forward to the pictures this summer of your many visits to the beach and to Florida!!! It’ll be here before you know it and that beautiful scar on Mary Clare’s chest will be just that— a beautiful scar… with many, many memories attached to it!!!
(((Hugs)))
Katie L.

Betsy  on April 6th, 2011

What a beautiful hospital room!

I hope today is filled with LESS pain, LESS fluid, LESS ticks, LESS hard headedness, and MORE play, MORE pee/poop, MORE patience, and MORE feeling better!

Love you!

sbanks  on April 6th, 2011

Just a quick message from a stranger!! I check your blog a couple of times a day!! I grew up in Hartsville (some 40 years ago)!! And my little brother had open heart surgery at Johns Hopkins when he was 9 yrs. old–very risky at that time. I remember being 12, staying home with relatives, and thinking and praying for my little brother, my Mama and Daddy in Baltimore for months. He is fine now–with a family, great job, etc. I can empathize with McCanless, and understand you and Mel’s concern. Many prayers are going up for your entire family–and I am one of those strangers!!

Alli  on April 6th, 2011

What an incredible room view! The atrium looks so bright and colorful, what a great place you guys are at! One week down, and hopefully things will be a little better each day from here. Go Mary Clare!

Sissy - aka Sherrill  on April 6th, 2011

MC looks so pretty even in a hospital bed. and by the way – Now every day I run – part of my pace setting chant is “pinkalicious Mary Clare” and “pinkalicious baby doll” “pinkalicious Mary Clare” Keeps me going!

Terri Woodham  on April 6th, 2011

Can’t believe it’s been one LONG week. I miss you so much! I won’t be long—we’ll be going to the beach, Florida, golf carts rides, SWIMMING, you name it — we’ll do it!!
Hopefully, you won’t remember the painful experience of this ordeal, but you will know all the people that love you-I promise! I will make sure you know how so many wonderful friends prayed and were so hopefull for your recovery and love you and your Mommy and Daddy and Cannie!
Be my little Clare — I love you soooooo much and I miss your smile and your hugs everyday. Be strong and brave (as I know you are) NONNIE

Terri Woodham  on April 6th, 2011

Thank you, Parker, for being such a sweetheart!

Danna  on April 6th, 2011

Kerri,

I don’t think we have even seen each other since Chris and I ran into you and Mel at Wal-Mart in Hartsville when McCanless was an infant! However, I came across your blog thru Betsy’s when she and I were expecting Preston and Bennett. I have kept up with Mary Clare’s heart journey ever since! Let me start out by saying what a BEAUTIFUL little girl and family you have! Your faith through all of this has been an inspiration to me. You often comment about how head strong and stubborn both of your girls are, and Bennett is absolutely the same way (and I believe her sister Jameson if following suit)! I recently quit work to stay home with both girls full time and when I am running low in patience and ready to pull my hair out, I think about Mary Clare and your family and remind myself how lucky we are for every minute God allows us to be a parent to these beautiful, precious children! I have been wanting to comment on your blog for a while to let you know that Mary Clare and your whole family are in my thoughts and prayers but was not sure what all I wanted to say. Bennett came in the room earler and saw the pictures of Mary Clare in her Tinker Bell pajamas and said “Ohhh, I like her! She likes Tinker Bell!” Bennett and Mary Clare seem to have a lot in common and I would love to see them play together when Mary Clare is up to it! Praying always for your family!

Danna Collins

Happy Heart  on April 6th, 2011

Her room is adorable! Praying that all of you get a good nights sleep tonight. Hospital days are sooo long. Thanks so much for the updates on your pinkalicious girl!

Blessings,
Jeannie